The more you know and understand the mind and heart of the person youre speaking to, the more youll be able to engage them on their level. It is possible, of course, that the speaker will never want to hear you no matter what you do some people. Dana fritz, manager, global sales training, rockwell automation talk less, say more is the answer to become an effective communicator. I believe most people are unaware of how their poor listening skills negatively impact rapport, harmony and understanding others. If no one initiates conversations with you, learn to accept and be okay with that. Yet anyone can develop the skills to say no with confidence, kindness, and peace of. The body language of alpha male, talk less say more.
How to talk less and listen more brain pathways blog. Some of the best communications advice ive read recently is to be found in connie diekens talk less, say more. Sep 01, 2015 listen to how to talk to anyone audiobook by leil lowndes. Conferring provides the opportunity for students to reveal their thinking and reading processes to the teacher. The book is a strong reminder that they cant forget about their audience and the real risk of being tuned out by them.
Say no more starts its theme with its very title and infuses into every pivotal action the paralyzing effects of keeping quiet about a crime, even when it is a crime committed every novel in this series imparts unsurpassed plotting and a timely theme threaded with reliability and consistency. We would do well to listen more and speak less and when we do speak, to only speak what he gives us to say. Sometimes the most effective choice you can make as a leader is to talk less and listen more. When you use your words, use them because they will brighten someones day. This succinct book solves modern communication issues in todays demanding, distracted world at a time when interaction skills are plummeting.
Listen more, talk less, calm down keep believing ministries. Sep 30, 2016 and the words few spoken human words have more power in them than five hundred trillion words of men, angels, and demons. Dana fritz, manager, global sales training, rockwell automation talk less, say more is the answer to become an effective. Talk less, say more is a revolutionary guide to 21stcentury communication skills to help you be more influential and make things happen in our distracted, attentiondeficit affected world. Written by jason travis, audiobook narrated by gene blake. Talk less say more, simple advice for a complicated world. Fight less, love more book is required reading for james madison university communication majors. In this video i shared a few tips on how to listen more and talk less. At the time, it wasnt exactly what hamilton wanted to hear even though later on, the advice might have saved his life.
Jul 21, 2015 jesus didnt come to make us nicer people. As you have admitted, this strategy has been unsuccessful. Talk less, say more lays out a powerful 3step method called connect, convey, convince r and guides you in how to use these habits to be more influential. And the words few spoken human words have more power in them than five hundred trillion words of men, angels, and demons. How you listen is just as important as your ability to listen. From long departure delays just what are we waiting for. Im the one person who wears the words hustle, loyalty, respect on my tshirts and merchandise. Talk less, say more by connie dieken overdrive rakuten.
Mar 25, 2020 learning to speak less means learning to think about your words. Before saying something, try to think about the words youre going to say ahead of time. Since the receiver gives you so much information, youll be able to avoid asking so many questions for clarification and get to your own point quickly and effortlessly. Offers 62 timetested hints, tips, and techniques for confidently communicating with others.
Here are three tips that will help us all to talk less and listen more. Weve been blessed with a very precious gift, my friends. Connies forwardthinking, actionable communication shortcuts can elevate anyones game. Talk more do less teaches a handson method to avoid the most common mistake beginning entrepreneurs make. The simple word no is often the most difficult to say. Talk less, say more what to say to air traffic control, and how to say it by karen m. Dec 28, 2016 i just bought a ton of used books recently on amazon to make sure i would read more this year. This situation can be improved by having talk less, say more at your side.
People often reveal information theyd rather keep private through speaking too much. Sep 18, 2009 talk less, say more is packed with powerful advice to get your points across and make things happen in todays timepressed world. How to talk to anyone by leil lowndes overdrive rakuten. May 20, 2016 a direct result of this is giving you more information to create an appropriate message of your own. Its hard to say less when theres so much to say and now even more ways to say it. Kahn have you ever felt youve been done wrong by air traffic control. Michael bungay stanier is the founder of box of crayons, a company that helps organizations do great work. Signin to download and listen to this audiobook today. Talk less, listen more porath 2014 the reading teacher. Thats why the father says to us of his son, listen to him matthew 17. From the author of if wishes were horses comes a novel of longburied secrets and selfdiscovery, showing us that sometimes what goes unsaid is more powerful than words. A kickbutt approach to a better life, 2nd edition, revised and updated.
This often happens, because we are obsessed with what we have to say. Say no more ebook by hank phillippi ryan rakuten kobo. Listen to how to talk to anyone audiobook by leil lowndes. Speaking and listening in a balanced way are imperative in our world. More than words can say more than words can say audiobook, by robert barclay. If you read this sermon and think, i should try harder to listen more, speak less, and calm down, thats a good. If you read this sermon and think, i should try harder to listen more, speak less, and calm down, thats a good sentiment, but it misses the point. Listen to the body language of alpha male, talk less say more audiobook by jason travis, narrated by gene blake. When boston reporter jane ryland reports a hit and run, she soon learns she saw more. Its loaded with specific tips and takeaways to ensure that youre fully heard, clearly understood, and trigger positive responses in any business or. See more triangledown pages other brand productservice talk less, say more english us espanol portugues brasil francais france deutsch. Apr 09, 2014 its hard to say less when theres so much to say and now even more ways to say it. If youve made the commitment to improve your written and spoken communication, talk less, say more is a.
What would happen if we created a culture in which we gave away whatever was more than enough for us. Dec 09, 2016 all good things must come to an end, but im excited for even better things to come. Interrupting, tuning out others and raising ones voice to get attention serve no useful purpose. The speaker is much more likely then to be in a psychological position to receive your message. Dec 05, 2009 this situation can be improved by having talk less, say more at your side. Its full of specific tips and takeaways to ensure that youre fully heard, clearly understood, and will ignite positive action in any business or social situation. Its like the world has given everyone a microphone and they love using it. Oct 19, 2010 in this video i shared a few tips on how to listen more and talk less.
Reasons why people talk more and listen less lack of awareness. Aug 07, 2011 for the best answers, search on this site be more concise. I share two short stories of how listening has made a huge impact on my life and the life of others. I am listening to the universe has your back right now on audible and im loving it so far. This may help you learn to keep certain things to yourself, leading you to speak less overall. Talk less, say more is a revolutionary guide to 21st century communication skills to help you be more influential and make things happen in our distracted, attentiondeficit world. Avoid thinking about what you are about to say, while the other person is speaking. Youll learn how to to collect, organize and validate your business ideas. I think the only way to break yourself of this unwanted behavior is to put some real effort into it. Feb 11, 2016 grow 7 smart reasons you should talk less and listen more saying less and hearing more has huge benefits that most people miss. Grow 7 smart reasons you should talk less and listen more saying less and hearing more has huge benefits that most people miss. Lead why you need to talk less and listen more people lack the emotional composure and resiliency to handle highimpact conversations and it is taking a tremendous toll on society. When boston reporter jane ryland reports a hit and run, she soon learns she saw more than a car crashshe witnessed the collapse of an alibi.
Stream and download audiobooks to your computer, tablet or mobile phone. Talk more do less stop wasting your time on bad business ideas. Since the receiver gives you so much information, youll be able to avoid asking so many. Sep 27, 2016 sometimes the most effective choice you can make as a leader is to talk less and listen more. For the best answers, search on this site be more concise. However, to gain an indepth understanding of students, teachers need to focus more on what. We subconsciously undermine the value of what the other person is articulating to us. In more or less, jeff shinabarger calls readers to create their own social experiments to answer the question, what is enough. Bestselling author and renowned communications consultant leil lowndes, focuses on icebreaking skills and. Talk less, listen more is a golden rule for peaceful life. Talk less, say more is packed with powerful advice to get your points across and make things happen in todays timepressed world. Thats why the father says to us of his son, listen to him. Jonathan lloyd is one of europes most prolific voice artists. Connies principles can be employed immediately to improve both your personal and business interactions.
Talk less, say more lays out a powerful threestep method called connect, convey, convince r and guides you in how to use these habits to be more influential. It is said that despite being the 16th president of the u. Talk less, say more is a revolutionary guide to 21stcentury communication skills that will help you to be more influential and make things happen in our distracted, attentiondeficit world. This succinct book solves your modern communication issues in todays demanding, distracted world at a time when interaction skills are plummeting. A direct result of this is giving you more information to create an appropriate message of your own. Get this book free when you sign up for a 30day trial. More than words can say audiobook listen instantly. The gift of being able to express our feelings, emotions, ideas or plans into something called words. If youve made the commitment to improve your written and spoken communication, talk less, say more is a short, easy read that will become your gotoguide. From the author of if wishes were horses comes a novel of longburied secrets and selfdiscovery. Talk less, say more provides the communication tools critical for success. Dec 27, 2011 here are three tips that will help us all to talk less and listen more.
Say no more starts its theme with its very title and infuses into every pivotal action the paralyzing effects of keeping quiet about a crime, even when it is a crime committed every novel in this series imparts. The thrilling next installment in hank phillippi ryans awardwinning jane ryland series. Learning to speak less means learning to think about your words. All good things must come to an end, but im excited for even better things to come. But, alas, as with every gift, overusing it may lead to unexpected results. I just bought a ton of used books recently on amazon to make sure i would read more this year. Apr 08, 2011 some of the best communications advice ive read recently is to be found in connie diekens talk less, say more.